David Deangelo's "Double Your Dating

This Week: Dealing With An Amazing Woman

 

[Note: This question was featured in a previous newsletter]

Dear Dave,

What happens when two people meet who BOTH have a great grasp of your theories?

A standoff?

Dueling cockiness?

If neither is willing to give up power, will there EVER be a point at which they let some guard down and start to really communicate?

You teach us to avoid getting into personal details... if one of us isn't interested, fine, but if that never happens, how can there ever be any reality?

OK, so I like her, and grow to love her, and finally ask her to marry me, all the time being cocky and funny in order to maintain her attraction.

She may say no because I haven't allowed her to get to really know me. I don't want a standoff. Someday I want a wife.

My Reply:

 If you do find such an amazing woman, and she sticks around long enough to be marriage material, then you're going to KNOW whether or not she'll accept your proposal.

You're talking about the above as if it's not desirable... on the contrary, women like the one you're describing, who can create as much chemistry as you can... who can keep stepping up and staying interesting... who have a grasp of the theories are the MOST FUN...

You're turning what is probably a wonderful potential situation into a mental drag.

Get over it, and realize that if you find such a great woman, you'll both realize when it's time to come clean and "let the guard down."

But PLEASE never confuse "letting your guard down" with TURNING INTO A GIRLY-MAN. If she's attracted to it at the beginning, chances are she'll be attracted to it 20 years from now.

Moral: Don't let your failure fantasies prevent you from doing what you know is best.

...and by the way, I have more tips on how to meet women online, what to say, and all kinds of other great priceless techniques for attracting women in my eBook "Double Your Dating." If you haven't downloaded your copy yet, you need to go HERE.

...and for more great tips to win at online dating go HERE.

I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.

 

 

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