What To Do & Talk About On Dates With Women

By David D (Double Your Dating website)
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When it comes to attraction, sometimes you have to do things that seem 'mean' or 'inconsiderate' on the surface in order to give a woman what she 'really' wants. If you don't do these things, you will fail the test, and ultimately fail with women.

Tell me if this sounds familiar to you...

You meet an interesting woman and you get her contact information...
You call her up to get a date with her... and she says "YES"...

You hang up the phone and smile to yourself. You did it... IT'S ON.

The day comes and you feel that excitement in your stomach. You meet up with her and head out... everything feels good... she seems to be in a good mood.

And then it happens...
Things slow down.
The jokes and conversations start to feel "forced" and awkward.
You wonder if she notices... and if she feels the same...

Things aren't looking good... you tell yourself to RELAX... snap out of it!

But there's just no denying that the energy you felt at the beginning of the date just isn't there anymore. Then she mentions she has to go to bed early. You walk her back to her car. She gives you the one-arm "friend hug", jumps in her car, and drives off.

Forever.

OUCH!

Has this ever happened to you? And let me ask you this... be honest:
Has this happened to you CONSISTENTLY?

If so, you're not alone. I know this scenario well because I've personally experienced it several PAINFUL times. And I don't know about you, but the times this happened to me were usually with a girl I was VERY interested in.

Why does it always seem to happen with the GOOD ones?

And, more importantly, WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE?

All that time and energy finally finding a great girl, all the energy and time to get a date and plan something fun... and then it just DIES.

Here's some encouragement:
The reason this happened is because you didn't know what to do, how to behave, and WHAT TO SAY when you were with her... to make her feel excited about being with you, and cause her to feel attraction for you.

And, most importantly... you didn't know what to say or do to lead things in the DIRECTION things things should have gone.

Most guys think that getting the date in the first place gets them most of the way "home".

It's just not true.

The REAL challenge comes when you're one-on-one with a girl, sitting across from her with a cup of tea in front of you... and she's looking at you hoping that you're not another pervy DWEEB that's just going to act like nervous dumbass.

To make things worse, there aren't a lot of "instruction manuals" that teach guys what to do and say with women on dates... to make the woman feel ATTRACTION.

This is an ENTIRELY DIFFERENT set of skills than the ability to approach a woman and get her phone number and email address. And these skills are at LEAST as important.

If you can't hold up a conversation with a woman when you finally do get together with her, chances are you won't EVER get together with her again... as you know.

Here's some more good news:
I believe that learning to create and keep up exciting conversations with women is a lot like learning how to tie a necktie.

If you don't know where to start, it's almost impossible to figure out on your own.

But once you know the exact steps, after a couple of tries you can get it right every time... without even having to really think about it.

And just like tying a necktie, you can learn to create and keep alive exciting conversations with women... CONSISTENTLY and EFFORTLESSLY... once you know the steps to do it right.

It took me about three or four YEARS to finally "get it", and to have total confidence that I could go out anywhere, anytime, and meet women. That was partly because I couldn't find any good models to learn from... and partly because I had to "unlearn" a lot of bad programming I had obtained along the way.

The reason I wrote my original eBook "Double Your Dating" was because I wanted to be able to help other guys out there to understand how to be successful with women and dating... without having to go through all the hassles and wasted time that I had to deal with.

It allowed me to go "deep" and spend a lot more time teaching the "inner game", as well as the "outer game" and specific techniques for meeting and dating women. It also allowed me the opportunity to interview some of the guys I know who are REALLY good with women...
and get them to share many of the great ideas that I learned from them that helped me become successful.

I invite you to check it out.
I mean, you'll never reach a point where you never have any problems with women, but you sure can prevent and eliminate about 80% of them by just knowing what to do to set up each step with women, and how to respond to certain situations.
If you'd like an introduction to my main concepts and techniques, then you need to start with my eBook, Double Your Dating. It's the foundation for everything that I teach in these articles, and it's a MUST-read. It's here:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com just follow the ebook link. This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have read the book.

I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D (Double Your Dating website)
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